tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9505627098701412012024-03-06T20:01:58.975+00:00Tony's Adventures Through CancerI had cancer, then I didn't, now I have it again - my thoughts are my personal words that flow when I log in. They assist me in my first instance in getting my thoughts flowing and down on virtual paper - Secondly to get friends and family in the loop, not so they don't have to ask me any awkward questions just so they are informed enough to know what to say to me and pray for the right things - As a public blog, anyone can read it - hoping it will assist others through their own challenges.Tony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.comBlogger156125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-90537204870630586512012-05-22T21:10:00.000+01:002012-05-22T21:10:00.665+01:00How Long?Earlier last week I was told I would not make it it past the weekend. During this past few days I felt suspended between life and death. Now I feel I am moving forward and although I have death running around my head I am happy that I hopefully I will see more days than I first thought - the prayers are flooding through from everyone that do the prayer thing (WHICH I KNOW HELPs!)<br />
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The nurses at Ashgate are great and are just checking my fluid bag.....I love the fact that we all work together...they really are the best in their field!!!<br />
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Please be thankful for their care that is extending my chubby life LOL<br />
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God Bless All<br />
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Much love<br />
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Tony xxxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-2039905918466399372012-04-15T11:05:00.001+01:002012-04-15T14:48:32.758+01:00Derwent Dambuster ChallengeDear All,<br />
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As many of you know and have kindly sponsored me already, I was due to do the Derwent Dambuster Challenge walk next Sat 21st April 2012.<br />
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Due to recent events relating in 2 stays in hospital and reactions to chemotherapy etc I am unfortunately not in a fit state to complete my personal challenge and at the same time gaining some sponsorship for the registered charity. The tumour/s in my backside..muscles are not responding particularly well to the switch in pain relief so I am barely able to walk 10ft to the toilet let alone 10 miles round the Derwent Dam! I do hope that those that have already so generously sponsored me already, are happy to continue with the brave Frances doing the walk and any others out there yet to sponsor me/ Frances will do so if you are able.<br />
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I thank you all and once again apologies that I am unable to make the challenge but I am sure you understand!<br />
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Much Love to all<br />
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I am number 212 which I hope will be available for Fran to use...have a look on the website.<br />
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Tony xxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-2345305799550153092012-04-09T12:09:00.001+01:002012-04-09T12:09:28.113+01:00Safe and well back at homeDear all,<br />
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Many many thanks for the kind words of support and prayers. Ma has been keeping my friends in Cancer Research up to speed a a high level and I will give a bit of detail here for all...<br />
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As you all know I was very unwell after my chemo on 27th February and missed my birthday on 01st March as just couldn't face anything. I wasn't eating or drinking at that time and was admitted to WPH on 05th March for 8 days, returning home after experiencing a very bad UTI on 13th March.<br />
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I rested until my next lot of chemo an even though the signs were there not to go for the chemo I still went ahead on 26th March (changed chemo from Irinotecan to Oxaliplatin). Unfortunately the same pattern followed and by Sunday 01st April I was admitted to WPH.<br />
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By Mon 02nd April I was suffering with the worse case of diarrhoea and vomiting you could ever imagine...It was that bad I can't even joke about it. The ward toilet had to be closed and I used up the ward supply of adult pull-em-ups - I was allocated a private room and a toilet specifically for me so that tests could be carried out. By Tuesday everything had started to settle, all that could be noted was a bad reaction to the chemo tied in with the continuous bowel and bladder infections brought on by the suspected fistula between my bowel and colon. As my temp continued to spike up and down I was kept in until they settled. Dr F came in to see me on Thursday and said that if things continued as they were I should be home for Easter. :-)<br />
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...Thurs Eve post blood review - the duty Doctor told me that I was not very well as I had a high temp and Neutropenic (suffering from<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neutropenia" target="_blank"> Neutropenia</a>). Bed rest and a definite stay in hospital is a must.<br />
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...Fri Eve, Neutropenia getting better. A high red blood count causing anaemia discovered. A review in 12 hrs decided on.<br />
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... Sat day, Still high red cell count evident so decided a couple of bags of blood decided upon, which would be monitored closely over 12-24 hrs.<br />
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...Sun day, Due to no high temps and level white and red blood cells I was able to come home Sunday lunch time. :-)<br />
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When I came home Fran made me a tin of Scotch Broth and some fresh bread and butter , I hadn't eaten at home properly for over a month so when I started to eat like I hadn't eaten for ages it was exactly true.<br />
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Next Steps:<br />
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Weds 11th April - Urologist review (Dr Shipstone), I suspect this area is the cause of many of my problems so cant wait for the investigation to be carried out by the experts!<br />
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Thu 12th April - Oncologist's review, where Fran and I will discuss my current and past chemo treatments to see if anything could have been done differently and my future chemo plan!<br />
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Speak to all soon...<br />
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Tony xxx<br />
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<br />Tony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-80411459448051515262012-03-30T12:23:00.000+01:002012-04-15T14:56:30.203+01:00Dawning of a new era!<span style="font-family: inherit;">Today two of the best chaps around came to visit....My Boss Richard Courtney and the RRD HR person looking after my case Alastair Swindlehirst. They came not for a nice visit but one to sign off my medical dismissal. I am not ashamed to admit that I cried alot last night when I read the letter explaining the process.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Anyway, I would not have wanted that conversation to be had by two nicer chaps. It started with us comparing scars from leg wounds and ended on a conversation about Disneyland. My time at RR Donnelley has been relatively short in comparison to the time actually worked. I have, I would like to say, delivered some good projects in my time there and been well recognised for the deliverables....that is how RRD work...You do a good job and are well rewarded for that work..I Shall miss RRD hugely both the people and the company. I have worked for some good companies in my time but can quite honestly say that RRD is by far the very best.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">There will be current employees out there who will disagree, however I know best how they have looked after me in my time of sickness.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I have at this stage decided to cease current chemo treatment. On Monday last I had a drug called <b>Oxaliplatin</b> and another called <b style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;">Raltitrexed</b><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;"> and have felt nothing but sickness for the past week. I have eaten next to nothing alongside nightmares. The last treatment I had called <b>Irinotecan</b> and <b>Avastin</b> did me not much better although at least I fared better at 17 treatments. A bit of a rash decision some might say however I believe in the power of God and the Universe and frankly when I had 3 months off drugs and rested my mind and body I felt so much stronger and better for it so will stick with my rash decision for now! Lets see what happens when I discuss it with my oncologist Dr Furniss and friends and family!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;">So ending on a note to say goodbye to Carole...A great and good friend who had her ceremony in Epping Forest last Wednesday. I will miss you greatly, so a fond farewell....and hello to Lisa (Shents) who wrote the best note </span></span><br />
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Much Love to all<br />
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Tony xxxxx<br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span>Tony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-8460575908375172892012-03-23T11:08:00.002+00:002012-03-23T11:46:32.340+00:00The Latest Update 22.03.12Dear All,<br />
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On Tuesday this week (20/03) I visited Chesterfield Hospital -Calow to see my Palliative Care consultant Mr Brooks. I have been twice before and seen his registrars who were brilliant and set me on my way with pain relief. This time Mr Brooks increased my pain relief from 80mg of Oxy Codone (Oxy Contin) to 120mg. In addition my 'breakthrough' pain medication Liquid Oxy Codone was increased from 2.5ml to 4ml. The secret of managing the breakthrough pain we have discovered, is to take the full dose and lie on my bed until the pain subsides.<br />
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As well as visiting Mr Brooks this week I went to see Dr Furniss yesterday, Thursday (22/03). Fran was clearly concerned with me continuing with the current regime of medication and if the truth be known so was I.<br />
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When I got in the little room and one of Dr Furniss' registrars entered we had a good discussion as to what was and what could happen. Option 1, was to reduce the Irinotecan dosage and remain at current dose of Avastin. I said I was not happy with carrying on with any amount of Irinotecan as although I was recently affected by infections etc there was still an ongoing reaction to Irinotecan which occurred within a couple of days post infusion. It actually frightened Fran as she could see from the front-line what was happening. Therefore Dr Furniss' registrar went away to contact Dr Furniss to see what else was available...<br />
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As from next Monday (26/03) I will be on a 3 weekly dose of Raltitrexed (Tomudex) in addition I would be on another chemo drug called Oxaliplatin (Eloxatin). Have a look on the internet as to side effects as there are the usual for all chemo drugs like tingling in the hands, nausea/sickness and fatigue. There are a couple of specific ones particular for each one of the chemotherapy drugs as follows...<br />
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Laryngeal Spasms where due to coldness in the air or in drinks caused shortness of breath - I have to gently warm my neck and take deep breath through my nose.<br />
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Not really anything worth noting apart from taste changes etc<br />
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In addition to these two drugs Dr Furniss is to attempt to gain funding for Bevacizumab (Avastin) which I am currently on. However with any change in drugs mixing, new funding. I have my fingers crossed.<br />
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I spoke with Chris and Colin on Tuesday who popped round for a chat and one of their empowering prayers. I prayed for Carole's family for more of the amazing strength they are all showing. Thank-you to you both who as always seem to appear when I need them both. Very special people!<br />
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So that is it for now....I will update you all after Monday.<br />
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p.s. During my visit to Calow I popped in to visit John (undergoing intensive radiotherapy to his jaw) I dropped off a present of natural Aloe Vera as I know this stuff works - unlike the sun relief stuff which is alcohol based which I put on my bum. This made me scream which Fran and Charlotte once they heard what I had done thought it hilariously funny and frankly after the burning had died down so did I.<br />
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I spoke with Gerry who is a fellow suffer' like my good self. The hospital reset his in spine pain relief which had fallen out, which explain his enormous pain. They moved the needle to below a different vertebrae and as Gerry said changed the pain relief brilliantly...He felt almost normal!<br />
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Will speak soon, to all of you!<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Tony xxxx <br />
<br />Tony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-90412020780172385242012-03-17T14:29:00.001+00:002012-03-17T14:29:09.148+00:00RIP Dear CaroleI am sorry to say that one of my dearest friends has finally lost their struggle against this disease... As her sister Sarah quoted...Carole did not give up her fight it was just the cancer was too big for her.<br />
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I was lucky to have met Carole recently at her home in London - Carole and our other friend Lisa met as we were the remaining members of a gang of 5...Rose and David had also sadly lost their lives last year.<br />
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I was also very honoured to meet with Sarah (Carole's lovely sister) and her partner Manolis, also we me James (Carole's eldest son) and his partner Leanne. Alongside Djamal (Carole's youngest) and Tom (Lisa's son)...<br />
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It truly was a day to remember, of friendships and chicken and chips alongside doughnuts...just normality all have a good lunch...It wasn't until later that I realised the meeting maybe our last.<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Tony xxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-39374491198862947802012-03-14T11:10:00.000+00:002012-03-14T11:10:50.769+00:00I'm Still here!Dear All,<br />
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Very many thanks for the kinds words of support. For the past few weeks post chemo, I have been unwell..Not quite sure what has been wrong but the symptoms have been a cold/flu, lethargy, nausea. I have not been wanting to eat anything and as for drinking, water made me feel physically sick which is a strange sensation.<br />
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I have been totally listless and once in bed have not felt like leaving it for anything with either sleeping or staring into space. I have been in a weird frame of mind with hallucinations like getting up for work for 1/2 hour until Fran convinced me to go back to bed. Strange, strange times and very worrying.<br />
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I also felt rather warm and after Fran took my temperature she decided not to listen to me (like she ever does!) and contact our GP surgery. Dr F discussed with Fran and after a short period of deliberation it was decided that Fran should contact WPH. As with most cancer issues...when an increase of temperature is involved a call to the hospital is required then a visit. The increase in temp usually denotes an infection and a drop in red blood cells. Fran was asked if she could drop me in to the hospital and once a bag was packed we were on our way.<br />
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Thankfully when we got there and I was on the assessment ward a consultant was available last Tuesday evening so got me on some different medication. Fran also noted to the team that I had previously been sick and therefore had not taken full effect of my tablets - therefore when considering my drugs intravenous was the only way for a period of time. So loads of needles and syringe drivers were the way forward. I have decided not to list everything that happened but was caught up with UTI Sepsis amongst other infections. IV antibiotics helped enormously<br />
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Well I am now back home and with Fran off at work I am now in a very peaceful house<br />
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Much Love to all<br />
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Tony xxxx<br />
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Tony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-82431710325553368652012-02-14T12:00:00.000+00:002012-02-14T12:00:36.343+00:0010 Minute segments!I have to ask myself, what I can get done in 10 minutes? Not the rushing around packing in the tasks 10 minutes but the 10 minutes until I collapse from exhaustion...<br />
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No sleep last night hardly, so was particularly tired this morning.<br />
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I was disappointed in myself that I hadn't gotten Fran a card. Fran said it was okay but I had bothered that year in Jan-Feb 2010 which I spent in hospital. I had the foresight to wrap a box of chocolates and a card in my wardrobe to direct Fran to find...maybe it was a premonition of what hell was to come and what normal things we absolutely had to keep going for the sake of tradition or normality. Nearly 3 months I was in hospital!<br />
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This morning I was woken with both a dull and piercing pain, liquid morphine entailed and in half an hour I attempted to get to the showeroom...back to my bed maybe for just another few minutes...After another 10 minutes I had a lovely shower. It proved just a little bit too much today....I found my drying myself getting slower and slower...I quickly but the bolt across my bedroom door in case Charlotte should wander in and dried myself enough that the bed would not be soaking and collapsed on the bed....instant relief.<br />
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Just spoke with Fran...going to get dressed in my pull-em ups and shorts then will pop down to the garage. Fran is making me one of my favourite yet simplest of dinners - Ham off the bone, A few chips and some peas and French beans. Almost always it has a couple of sunny-side up eggs but just not in the mood today. She is making a Nigel Slater recipe for a cheese and onion tart for Herself and Charlotte but like I said not in the mood for eggs today!<br />
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Time to drive to the garage to get some chocolates and a card, will be back soon and don't tell Fran they are from me???<br />
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T xxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-35266832434728173532012-02-04T16:25:00.005+00:002012-02-07T10:50:47.569+00:00My 2012 Derwent Dambuster 10-mile Challenge<span style="background-color: white; color: red; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">PLEASE DONATE AS </span><span style="background-color: white; color: red; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 20px;"> MUCH OR AS LITTLE AS YOU CAN - </span><span style="background-color: white; color: red; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">THANK-YOU</span><br />
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<b>In Dec 2009</b> I was diagnosed with Stage 3 Bowel Cancer which had infiltrated a number of lymph nodes. Surgery was performed to remove the cancer and lymph nodes and unfortunately the chemo was stopped after 4 days due to an allergic reaction.</div>
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<b>In Oct 2010</b> secondary metastases were discovered - a single tumour in my liver and cancerous 'hotspots' in my para-aortic lymph nodes and my pelvis. I was told the cancer that had returned was inoperable.</div>
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<b>In Jan 2012</b> the cancer returned to the original bowel cancer site as well as the secondarys.</div>
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I was given a leaflet for Challenge Cancer Through Adventure over a year ago as friends of mine thought I deserved some fun. I finally started looking at what I wanted to do as an Adventure. Within the site there was a link for The 2012 Derwent Dambuster 10-mile Challenge, this is what I have decided to take part in as my challenge whilst raising funds for CCTA:</div>
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Some may think that Cancer is enough of a challenge but I need some other challenge, some fun - Why not raise some money at the same time!</div>
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Much Love to you all and Thank-You in advance!</div>
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<span style="line-height: 16px;">Tony xx</span></div>Tony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-28417912391511475012012-02-04T00:55:00.000+00:002012-02-04T00:55:38.886+00:00Thursday's Oncologist ReviewDr F, my Macmillan Nurse H went through in a bit more detail the results of the recent MRI and CT scans....<br />
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During my appointment, I made the decision to ask the one question I have been putting off asking for the past 2 years. I asked it straight.... "How long have I got to live in my current status"... I was terrified to ask it and even more so to get the answer that I was sure would give me less that a year on this planet. The answer was a little unexpected but apart from being told I was cured, was the next best thing... <span style="color: red;">"I truthfully cannot give you an answer that would be accurate. You are reasonably healthy apart from the slight increase in activity"</span><br />
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So there you go, I have plenty of time as it currently stands to pray for a cure and continue with as much healthy eating and exercise as my body will allow. Whilst I will be on treatment No 2 on Monday I need to get as fit as I can in order for my body to be able to tolerate the extreme treatments coming its way.<br />
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I have noted already something that didn't happen for 6+ months last time and that is my hair falling out....washing my hair in the shower this morning saw big handfuls dropping to the bottom of the shower....that head shaver Fran brought me for Christmas will be out and in action this coming weekend!<br />
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I am looking to get a Urology referral via my GPs due to the repeated urinary infections. I have been through 4 lots of anti-biotics and should get another 2 weeks supply on Monday when they should have the lab/culture results. The nurse who initially dip-tested my sample said the results were off the chart...I agreed as it is quite painful at times to go for a wee!<br />
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I have placed some 'details' below mainly for my blog records and for anyone that really wants to know a little more detail than usual. <br />
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Comparison was made using the previous MRI scan results from 11.05.2011 and CT scan results 28.02.2011<br />
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<b>MRI notes:</b><br />
<ul><li>Area of activity seen in the rectum has increased in size.</li>
<li>No Para Aortic growths showing - therefore whilst still activity (hotspots) the activity has remained static.</li>
<li>The liver shows an area of high activity at the site of the known metastasis - no other metastases showing.</li>
</ul><b>Conclusion:</b><br />
Features are in keeping with local recurrence with spread into the right levator, and a liver metastasis that has increased in size.<br />
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<b>CT notes:</b><br />
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<ul><li>No evidence of Lung or Mediastinal (chest) lymphadenopathy (disease of the lymph nodes).</li>
<li>A couple of small lung nodules are seen which remain unchanged since the previous CT.</li>
<li>The Liver Tumour has increased in size to 3.8cm from 2.1cm</li>
<li>No other Liver adhesions identified.</li>
<li>Normal appearances of the spleen, pancreas, kidneys and adrenal glands.</li>
<li>No para aortic lymphadenopathy.</li>
<li>An incisional hernia noted in the right anterior abdominal wall.</li>
<li>Increased activity and inflammatory change within the pelvis at the site of the anastomosis (intestinal join).</li>
<li>No destructive bone lesions (damage)</li>
</ul><div><b>Conclusion:</b></div><div>Features in keeping with disease progression both within the pelvis and within the liver.</div><div><br />
</div><div>So a mixture of good and not so good news but to be honest I am certainly not going to cry about the results I was given - now I am back on the Irinotecan and Avastin lets get the 3.8cm liver tumour back to scar tissue !!!</div><div><br />
</div><div>Minister Colin and Chris popped round last week and had chocolate biscuits...no happy shopper biscuits in this house...a very old joke that happened some time ago when Minister Lynn was given Happy Shopper biscuits. It was lovely to see and take prayer with them both.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Not very often nowadays, but I went to Third-Space last week on Weds and celebrated Burns Night...a lot of laughter and excellent food was sorely needed.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Much Love to all,</div><div><br />
</div><div>Tony xx</div>Tony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-22163946730103188412012-01-28T00:21:00.000+00:002012-02-07T01:15:46.058+00:00This is what 'I' look like.<div>
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I had some lovely compliments about how gorgeous I look in my new suit....Unfortunately I have had to come clean and admit to being a fraud...The picture below is one of me a few months ago when I used to ride the beast that is Miranda...Unfortunately too cold and dangerous to ride with chemo head so she is locked in the shed nice and warm for the winter! The other bloke was a chap in the catalogue where I brought my new suit from!<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Tony xxxx<br />
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Why did I put myself through all the pain, when there is the Loperamide!<br />
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I have so many Loperamides as when I first had the colostomy I had to take 40 per day to try and slow down the fluids output.<br />
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I have taken the emergency two and will await the next couple of hours after which 1 tablet every 2 hours.<br />
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I have a plan and so far so good, I feel better already!<br />
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Much Love<br />
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TonyTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-46617438817888268302012-01-27T10:46:00.000+00:002012-01-27T10:46:13.795+00:00Still awake (2)And now the opposite from last time...<br />
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Diarrhoea = Pain = No sleep = hours of quiet contemplation<br />
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Seriously, it is10.30am on Friday morning and I have a planned trip to town to pick up my prescription, do a bit of shopping and post off a package...what with the nuclear fall-out I wont be doing any of it.<br />
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I did utilise some of the time awake in a more constructive way by buying a suit...When I became ill, when all the test results were in and I had lost about 5 stone, some through exercise and diet and some through the cancer, I had some really nice clothes including a dinner suit and a couple of reasonably new business suits. I was quite proud that I had given them away to a big bloke somewhere close to Matlock.<br />
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I returned to work at RR Donnelley LTD in the spring 2010 (If I recall correctly) and had to leave again a couple of months later. I'd brought another suit under false pretences.<br />
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My niece Emma's wedding is fast approaching in several weeks time....I have the enormous honour to do a reading, 1 Corinthians and thereabouts. I tried the suit on late last night and for some reason the suit has shrunk to the size of an old Norman Wisdom suit.<br />
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Luckily time is on my side so ordered a nice 3 piece suit (not a sofa and two armchairs). It also has an unusual lilac lining, which actually looks really nice. I will get you all a picture of me at the wedding - I'll bet you can't wait...LOL<br />
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Yesterday, I ventured into Matlock to do some shopping from 3 different shops at opposite ends of the High Street. Usually my walking or even driving pace would have completed the tasks in under 10 minutes. My new slow pace of life had my tasks completed in just over 90 minutes. Also due to the slow pace I bumped into Barbara D where we had a quick chat. I plodded across the road and round the corner came Barbara N who's husband John has advanced cancer so was able to give her a Tony hug and ask how she was.<br />
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I turned the corner and bumped into Grayden D who's wife Barbara D I had seen only moments before...they both invited me separately to the Peli Deli for a coffee which I unfortunately had to decline due to a pain in the arse and fatigue from the slow plodding! My final resting place was the Co-op where whilst plodding past the veggie counter I bumped into David W...as a bearer of bad news he informed me that his lovely wife Marie was again in hospital after suffering from another stroke. David and I spoke for sometime and then went our separate ways to complete our shopping.<br />
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I finally got home after plodding around Matlock Town centre and thoroughly enjoying the slower pace of my life as it is at the moment...Without the greatly reduced speed I wouldn't have met those lovely people as no doubt I would have been too busy to see them let alone stop and chat!<br />
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Time to try and get some rest.<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Tony xxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-56671197652453555402012-01-23T12:28:00.000+00:002012-01-23T12:28:17.083+00:00Insurance!Hello blog and readers!<br />
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Some of you may be aware that my eldest daughter Catherine is planning to get married to Mark in the Dominican Republic in October, this year.<br />
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I have just called a company that someone noted on Cancer Research Chat....I spoke with Harry (<a href="http://www.insurecancer.com/">http://www.insurecancer.com/</a>) who took down a full history and I have ascertained the following details...<br />
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1) As the wedding is in October 2012, there is much that can happen between now and then. As I am just restarting my chemotherapy treatments I will have to demonstrate 'fitness to travel' nearer the time.<br />
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2) An assessment will need to be carried out by my oncologist around September 2012 after which a decision will be made whether they can give me a quote for travel insurance.<br />
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3) We have just paid a minimal deposit, however the balance of the holiday will need to be paid in July 2012.<br />
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4) Whilst not a formal quote Harry advised that I would have to prepare myself for a quote of above £1000 due to the fact I am on active treatment and at such an advanced stage.<br />
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5) Harry did say that Barcelona would be a cheaper option but not quite the same...<br />
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So, if anyone has any further advice on the above points especially the catch 22 dilemma between 2) & 3) or maybe some alternative Insurance Companies that specialise in Cancer Travel then I would be grateful.<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Tony xxxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-75230131253918138652012-01-23T03:43:00.000+00:002012-01-23T03:43:40.740+00:00Still awake!One of my worst situations is being awake at 03.30am and not being able to sleep...I know how much better I would feel if I slept well!<br />
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Constipation = pressure = pain = morphine and no sleep = quiet time for contemplation...Tony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-32618390650030726882012-01-16T00:11:00.000+00:002012-01-16T00:11:23.927+00:00A wonderous day!On Saturday I went down to London a drive which took me nearly 6 hours to see my two friends from Cancer Chat Carole (Dizzie) and Lisa (Shents).<br />
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I didn't know how I would feel when I met them face 2 face for the first time but I was excited and slightly nervous. As I pulled up James (Carole's eldest Son) and Leanne were just coming down the road. I recognised him instantly from Carole's blog <a href="http://caroleandcancer.blogspot.com/">http://caroleandcancer.blogspot.com/</a> and called out to him asking where I could park....From that moment on I was not nervous at all everything seemed so natural.<br />
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When I got inside and hugged Lisa and Carole we chatted like old friends and I realised there and then that over the past 2-3 years we had all grown to be great friends.<br />
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Tom (Lisa's son) and DJ (Carole's son) were both playing the Xbox like old mates too. We all sat down with a cuppa and chatted for several hours about everything. Sarah (Carole's Sister) and her partner Manolis came round so again it was lovely to see them as we have chatted online for a while.<br />
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We all had lunch together, Carole bought us all chicken and chips from the shop round the corner which were followed by lovely doughnuts which I picked up along the way.<br />
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I think sometimes on-line friendships can turn out to be different when you meet people face 2 face but everyone was exactly as I knew them.<br />
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These two ladies have helped me enormously over the past few years and by reading their blogs I understand exactly how tough things have been for them Lisa writes amazingly well and even had her first blog <a href="http://keepyerhairon.blogspot.com/">http://keepyerhairon.blogspot.com/</a> made into a book she now has thankfully shaken breast cancers clutches and continues to be well writing lovely stories of her day 2 day life in a new blog <a href="http://www.letyerhairdown.blogspot.com/">http://www.letyerhairdown.blogspot.com/</a><br />
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Carole writes with honesty and straight from the heart with no frills, unfortunately her cancer of the rectum continues to have its clutches into her and she continues the fight.<br />
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I can quite honestly say the meeting of the Famous Five was an amazing success. Unfortunately there are only 3 of us left as Rose <a href="http://rose-bcjourney.blogspot.com/">http://rose-bcjourney.blogspot.com/</a> and David <a href="http://youwinagain-cybershot.blogspot.com/">http://youwinagain-cybershot.blogspot.com/</a> are very sadly no longer with us. They lost their battles last year to the bastard cancer and we are determined to not let it take anymore of us three that are left.<br />
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They are both truly friends for life and may god bless them both.<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Tony xxxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-86319068875788765472012-01-13T18:32:00.001+00:002012-01-13T22:59:37.169+00:00Quick Update!Dear All,<br />
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Here is a quick update from my Onco's appointment yesterday...<br />
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It is recognised that I now have inoperable cancer in the following areas:<br />
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Colon - New<br />
Single Liver Tumour <br />
Pelvic Lymph Nodes<br />
Para Aortic Lymph Nodes<br />
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I asked the question as to why the obvious two areas for surgery could not be operated on i.e. the Colon and Liver Tumours. The response was there were highly likely to be other cells in those areas which were just waiting for activity and lack of chemo and they would be off populating my liver and colon with multiple tumours.<br />
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In addition to this both would be relatively major operations which would require long periods of recovery and whilst in recovery I would be unable to have chemotherapy. When I had the PET scan several months ago...it was noted that the cancer hotspots particularly in my pelvis would not be able to be operated on as the operation would be too extensive.<br />
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So yes they could operate and take away the Liver Tumour however there would almost certainly be reoccurences and the requirement for further surgery.<br />
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We also discussed SIRT (Selective Internal Radiation Therapy). It was mentioned sometime ago as a possibility...This has now been ruled out as the criteria is that you have a single liver tumour and are currently post chemo. Unfortunately the multiple areas mean I do not meet the criteria.<br />
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Frankly, I am not prepared to be off chemo any longer that I have to...Even though I have been off chemo for only several months, the cancer has shown activity and has grown slightly in my Liver and Colon.<br />
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I hope that makes sense, if not ask questions.<br />
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p.s. I almost forgot...I enquired about the possibility of radiotherapy...especially on the tumour in my colon...It was refused as I had very high doses previously and I would be at serious risk of internal damage. I have originally 26 sessions but as I was allergic to capecitebine (my chemo drug) it was decided to give me an extra 3 high doses to try and compensate.<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Tony xxxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-35843529735980689412012-01-09T19:13:00.000+00:002012-01-09T19:13:18.112+00:00What a Pain in the Bum and How to Kick its sorry AssDear all,<br />
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The title is a tribute to two ladies who keep me going along this path....<br />
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My latest news is....<br />
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Thurs 12Jan - Blood Test and Oncologist appointment<br />
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Mon 16Jan - Chemo (Avastin and Irinotecan) starts again for the second round<br />
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Whilst I know what's coming after 16 sessions of chemo I am quite excited to get this started....I have read in the papers about how difficult it is to get Avastin due to the cost etc so I am glad I am with a hospital that believes in it!<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Tony xxxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-67035473239776717492012-01-07T00:23:00.000+00:002012-01-07T00:23:14.275+00:00What next!I went to see Mr S a couple of days ago to get the results of my MRI and CT Scans. <div><br />
</div><div>The tumour in my liver has increased slightly which was to be expected with the 3 months rest from chemo - There is now a tumour in my lower colon, pretty much at the original site. No immediate surgery as would be too difficult to remove so chemo and potentially radiotherapy then close monitoring and reviews will be the next steps. Mr S noted that the colon tumour may get pretty painful and if it became to difficult and painful to go to the toilet he could action a bypass to a stoma...so good to have a further option should it be needed.</div><div><br />
</div><div>My 'Inoperable' status remains as I have been told there would be little point actioning the major surgery on my liver and colon with the cancer in my <a href="http://www.radiologyassistant.nl/en/4646f1278c26f" target="_blank">para-aortic lymph nodes</a> which due to the location cannot be treated by surgery.</div><div><br />
</div><div>I have spoken via email to my Oncologist Ms F who has put in the request to recommence chemo using the same regime as before. I know what is to come so have already started to prepare so that I am mentally and physically strong for the months ahead.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Pippa my acupuncturist gave me a good talking to as well as sticking lots of needles in me...did me the world of good. </div><div><br />
</div><div>On top of all of the above I have a bloody toothache which seems to be at the forefront of my thoughts about me. Something to take my mind of the cancer I suppose.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Love being sent to Carole, Lisa, Deb and Gabi who are all going through their challenges...................Amen!</div><div><br />
</div><div>Much Love to all</div><div><br />
</div><div>Tony xx</div>Tony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-73216413752169307492011-12-26T01:10:00.001+00:002011-12-26T01:13:25.357+00:00Christmas Day....The day started at 08.30 with stockings being opened...main presents wait until after dinner and Queen's speech.<br />
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Then at 09.30 we met up with the <a href="http://third-space.org.uk/" target="_blank">Third-Space</a> crowd in the bandstand in Matlock Park for the usual Christmas Service. All had a piece planned but Fran decided to leave hers as she could see I was starting to struggle.<br />
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It was two notes for all to ponder...not necessarily there at the bandstand but anywhere the mood took us. I found the question about 'What would we think if everyone were celebrating our birthday in such a huge way?' rather amusing as I personally would see that the majority were not celebrating as I would like them to. I then thought of what Jesus would think about the way we as Christians and Atheists celebrate his birthday...would he be mad at the way it is celebrated..probably not mad, but I bet he would be a little dissapointed at the way much is made of whether or not a great Christmas is had by what presents are received!<br />
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The other one is, what would we be doing with our lives if Jesus had not been born...for one there would be no Christmas and we would not be called Christians...how many of us would believe in God as he still exists whether Jesus did or not. This one will take me a little more time to ponder...<br />
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Wendy's item was simple but made the biggest impact I thought...she had a shepherds crook, parcel labels and pens...we were to write as many names as we needed to of people who we wanted to bring before God at their time of need. Looking at those labels as they flickered in the wind was very thought provoking...<br />
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I did say to Wend that I expected my name to be mentioned at least 6 times on the labels and whilst I knew my name was there it doesn't need a label to show me how hard my family, friends in Matlock and friends globally are praying and thinking of me. I often see people in town that I know from one of the 10+ churches in our circuit, they stop me to tell me that they prayed for me that week. There are too many people to thank personally but you all know who you are and how much it means to me...I really do believe in miracles and whilst I seem to be struggling that little bit more this year than last I know there is still many chances for me and Christmases to be experienced.<br />
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Since being told that I have inoperable cancer I have been a little more reckless than usual with my driving...often pulling to a stop at Matlock train station with a hand-brake turn...to Charlotte's embarrassment. I am pleased to say that Fran has brought me a stunt driving experience for Christmas. I would never drive in a way that would be dangerous to anyone else but experiencing driving on two wheels and spinning the car round doing a proper hand-brake turn is a dream come true...I will let you know how that goes...I have to book soon as either surgery or chemo will slow me down in Jan-Feb next year.<br />
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Anyways...I slept from 10.30 til about 2pm when Fran called me for dinner...It wasn't the usual size, stacked up but a pretty picture of perfect portions...she knew I wouldn't be up to the big roasts of old so it was perfect!<br />
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Spoke with Catherine and the grandaughters and look forward to seeing them all next week. Just had a cuddle from Charlotte and she has made me a nice hot cuppa which I am drinking before trying to get some sleep after sleeping most of today :-)<br />
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My thoughts are with so many out there but special mentions have to go with Carole, Lisa and Deb...will speak with you all next Christmas!<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Tony xxxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-74029572506006802402011-12-19T15:38:00.000+00:002011-12-19T15:38:46.605+00:00Cold Turkey at Christmas! (2)Not so simple as I thought - Trying to stop 160mg+ of Morphine per day is not an easy task....yesterday I was climbing the walls, sweating and very, very tired. I even had to leave Fran in Church in the middle of the first prayer of which I offer sincere apologies to our local minister David.<br />
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In the afternoon I was due to meet our great friends for a Carol concert in one of our local pubs....I was so looking forward to it but spent the time in bed trying to sleep off this horrible feeling. More apologies for not turning up.<br />
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I have tried taking 60mg a day but still feel pretty rough. I missed a call from Dr P this morning so will give him a call tomorrow. I am sure he will give me his usual brand of sensible advice to get me sorted.<br />
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God Bless all,<br />
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Tony xxxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-6936942644848080542011-12-17T17:54:00.000+00:002011-12-17T17:54:18.820+00:00Cold Turkey at Christmas!I am going through something I never thought I would....<br />
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Three weeks ago I stopped my Amitriptyline (75mg per day) and went on to a less sleep inducing Nortriptyline (25mg per day). I was told that I was able to increase the dosage by 25mg upto the 75mg if the pain got too much. The expected burst of pain didn't materialise so my logic thought maybe I didn't need the 25mg of Nortriptyline either so I dropped that from my daily regime.<br />
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I then got to thinking that if I could do without the Nortriptyline what about the Zomorph and Oramorph?<br />
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As the Oramorph was only for breakthrough pain and as a boost if I was driving (even down to the shops) this was ceased last week.<br />
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As for the Zomorph (Morphine) I was taking 80mg twice a day so last week I reduced it to 60mg twice a day. Amazingly the pain didn't occur so I left it until yesterday morning and stopped taking the Morphine completely.<br />
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It was whilst sitting in the bath last week that I spoke with Fran and an original theory by the palliative care doctor started to make sense. What if the pain wasn't solely down to the ulcer and general swolleness of the scar tissue in my colon. It seemed likely that it was wholly down to the chemo and biological warfare. Mr S the surgeon noted that whatever the swelling was in my colon was, it had reduced!<br />
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So tonight after not much sleep last night I believe I am going through withdrawal symptoms...not quite the cold turkey of a hardened morphine addict however the constantly runny nose, the agitated arms and legs and the inability to concentrate seems likely to be due to the lack of morphine!<br />
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There is no pain in my bottom which has blighted my life for the best part of the last year and at times has terrified the family due to my screaming and crying in seriously unbearable pain...and in a day or two the mild withdrawal symptoms would have subsided!<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Tony xxxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-77277139610481280572011-12-15T17:23:00.000+00:002011-12-15T17:23:29.902+00:00Todays appointment with Mr SThe day started well with a calming prayer in the examination room whilst I waited for Mr S.<br />
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However when I heard Mr S asking his nurse to get the KY Jelly I knew it wasn't going to be a fun appointment!<br />
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Anyway - not so bad as after the internal examination Mr S concluded that the lump had reduced in size. I also discussed my requirement to chuck pain killers down my throat had reduced quite a bit since I started my chemo rest which concludes that the chemo was a central cause of the pain on my ulcer.<br />
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I no longer take the Amitriptyline and have reduce my morphine tablets by 25% and will be looking to take back some more control over the next few days. As you can imagine you cant stop reasonably high morphine doses in a single day otherwise withdrawal symptoms would occur.<br />
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Even if the pain is being eliminated and hopefully attributed to the chemo and bio treatment the ulcer and fistula are still there to be dealt with, however I am hoping the treatment may not be so drastic.<br />
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As there could be a suspected reoccurence of the original bowel cancer I am to have a detailed MRI and a CT scan.<br />
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So, sort of good news, personally I don't like not being off chemo so long but quality of life is far better for the moment so maybe a consideration for the future....we'll see!<br />
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Much Love to all, but a special mention to TonyB who lost his battle a short while ago.<br />
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An additional special mention to Carole (Dizzie), Lisa (Loopy), Deb (Kentmum) and Tanya who are all experiencing their own struggles and remain with humour!<br />
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Tony xxxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-51481641123400522172011-12-11T22:52:00.000+00:002011-12-11T22:52:44.156+00:00Next appointment...Not long ago received an appointment letter from Mr S's clinic. I am to see him next Thursday 15th December for an initial meeting where we will review details.<br />
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I am sure the surgery to remove the ulcer and part of my large intestine alongside fitting me for a stoma wont be before Christmas as assume it is too late to slot me in. Although if it is, Fran and I have discussed and I will accept the date and get it over with!<br />
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Kind Regards to all, will keep you up to speed after Thurs.<br />
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Tony xxTony Songhursthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727438178278659080noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-950562709870141201.post-53474151435172940332011-12-05T23:06:00.000+00:002011-12-05T23:06:22.617+00:00Update - 05th December 2011<div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Hello All,</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I had a review with my Oncologist today after my CT scan a couple of weeks ago. I have also had a break from chemo after 16 Irinotecan and 13 Avastin, it was having a real effect on me and hurt me so much in my leg bones and muscles that I was having trouble walking. I am pleased to say after a 6 week break I am feeling so much better.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">The results of my CT scan showed that all the cancer impacted areas were stable - therefore the lymph glands in chest and pelvis and the tumour in my liver are all doing okay...Not being shrunk or disappearing however they are not growing either and that is not bad for a year (since last Oct 2010). They have noted several spots in my chest of about 1mm each however they are not sure these are significant so will just continue to keep an eye out.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">The intense pain that I have been feeling in my backside is well under control with morphine etc - the pain is caused by an ulcer situated on the join where the original tumour site was. The whole area is not looking good and could potentially hide cancer cell activity. My surgical care team decided that the best course of action would be to operate and remove a reasonable section of my colon, thus clearing the ulcer and all other rubbish. This would also remove the need for so much morphine although a downside is that I would need a permanent colostomy/stoma - I considered this option long and hard and as I am taking a break from chemo it seems the right thing to do (I cannot have surgery whilst on Avastin as this would stop the healing process and blood clotting)</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">It has also been discovered that I have what is known as a fistula between my colon and my bladder - pretty gross, this is where the body decides to build its own link between organs, that link is not necessarily good and is a direct result of the chemo - the surgery should help to clear this up also.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I will let you know when the surgery is, hopefully soon and I will make sure I don't spend 7 weeks in hospital this time!</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Much Love to all,</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Tony xxxx</div><div><br />
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